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BEGIN YOUR JOURNEY

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BEGIN YOUR JOURNEY

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Vows for Eternity

You Have Built Everything Except This.

The career. The life. The respect. The freedom to live on your own terms. And still. There is a quiet question that surfaces in the spaces between everything else. On the flight home. In the room after the guests have left. In the moment before sleep. Is there someone who could meet me here?

We Believe There Is.

But finding them requires something most people are not willing to do. It requires honesty about what you actually want, not what looks right. It requires patience, because the right person does not arrive on your timeline. And it requires a kind of surrender, letting someone see past the version of you that performs. That is not easy. Especially for people who have built their lives on being capable, competent, and in control.

What We Do

Vows for Eternity is a private matchmaking service. Fifteen years. Sixty five countries. Thousands of introductions. We work with accomplished individuals who are serious about finding a life partner. We work with families who want to support that search without overstepping. We sit at the intersection of tradition and independence, and we navigate it without judgment.
We do not arrange marriages. We arrange introductions.
We listen before we search. We challenge before we match.
And we stay with you through a process that changes most people who go through it, whether or not it ends in a match.

What We Have Learned

That success can make this harder, not easier. That the people who seem to have the most options often feel the most unseen. That many of our clients come to us exhausted, not by loneliness, but by settling for conversations that never go deep enough. That families want to help but do not always know how. That the search is often not just for a partner. It is for clarity about what partnership even means in today’s world.

What We Ask

Show up honestly. Be willing to be challenged. Let go of the checklist long enough to feel something. This is not a passive process. It will ask things of you. But the people who trust it, who do the work, often find more than a partner. In the process, they find themselves too.

This Is Where It Begins

Not with certainty. Just with willingness.

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SOME LOVE STORIES

Real members. Real paths. No two the same.

Investment Banker | New York | 32"I was 29, on Wall Street, living in what's supposedly the singles capital of the world. And still couldn't find the right person. After six years of looking, falling in love, and getting my heart broken, I contacted Vows for Eternity. They introduced me to someone in India. I resisted for three months, but the team kept prodding. They believed we were a good fit. Eventually, I called. We spoke once and never stopped. Two trips to India and ten months later, we were married. Today we live in the suburbs with two little ones. It feels right. My family."
Artist and Sculptor | Mumbai and Berlin | 44"My life doesn't fit into neat boxes. I split my time between two cities. I've never had a conventional career. I don't come from money. I've made my own way through galleries, residencies, and years of uncertainty. Most matchmaking services didn't know what to do with me. I wasn't the 'settled professional' they were looking for. VFE was different. They weren't trying to slot me into a category. They actually wanted to understand how I see the world, what drives my work, what kind of presence I need beside me. The man they introduced me to is a tech executive. On paper, the opposite of me. But he collects art. He spends his weekends in silence. He understood immediately why I need space to create and didn't take it personally. We've been together for two years now. He calls me his favourite disruption. I call him my anchor. It works."
Portfolio Manager, Hedge Fund | Singapore | 38"I run a portfolio worth more than most companies. I'm trained to be skeptical of everything, especially anything that feels like it's selling me emotion. When I first heard about VFE, I assumed it was a glorified dating agency with a luxury price tag. I was wrong. What surprised me wasn't the match. They pushed back on what I said I wanted. They asked hard questions about why my previous relationships hadn't worked. No one had done that before. I'm used to people telling me what I want to hear. They didn't. The woman they introduced me to wasn't who I would have picked on paper. She's a pediatrician. Quiet, grounded, completely unimpressed by my world. That's exactly what I needed. Someone who saw through the noise. We got married last spring. Turns out the best investment I ever made wasn't in the markets."
Startup Founder | San Francisco | 36"I've raised three rounds of funding, scaled a company to 80 people, and pitched rooms full of people who didn't believe in me. None of that prepared me for how hard it is to date as a woman who outearns most men. I can't tell you how many times I've watched someone's energy shift the moment they realize what I do. Some got competitive. Others got distant. A few made jokes that weren't really jokes. I was exhausted. VFE was the first place that didn't treat my success as a problem to work around. They understood that I wasn't looking for someone intimidated by me or trying to compete with me. I wanted a partner. Someone secure. The man they matched me with runs a nonprofit. He's brilliant, but in a completely different way. He doesn't need to be the loudest in the room. When I told him about my company, he just asked what I loved most about building it. That was it. That was the moment. We moved in together three months ago."
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